Do you have your heart set on an Aquarius man? I’m sorry…just kidding. If you are interested in an Aquarius man, the first thing you need to do is decide how interested are you because these guys are not easy to understand or keep, if you do get into a relationship with one. Once you realize this is the guy you want, let’s see how you can get to his heart. I warn you though, the road will be bumpy but satisfying!

• A Word About the Air Sign of Aquarius
• What Is an Aquarius Man Attracted To?
• Aquarius Man Personality Traits
• The Weaknesses of Aquarius Man
• How Do You Tell an Aquarius Man Likes You?
• How to Attract an Aquarius Man?
• Aquarius Man Compatibility
• Final Thoughts

A Word About the Air Sign of Aquarius

Aquarius, also known as the Water Bearer, is not a water sign! I want to stress that as much as I can because the confusion is common and to some degree valid. Aquarius is an air sign like Gemini and Libra and it exhibits all the features of this element. This sign is ruled by both the rebellious Uranus and stubborn Saturn, which makes for a great cosmic combination that gives these natives unique personalities.

Aquarius is a fixed sign, like Leo, Taurus, and Scorpio and you are about to discover just how “fixed” it is, the more you get to know your water bearer man! They are original to an extreme and Uranus gives them the “screw the status quo” attitude that makes them some of the most innovative and interesting characters of the zodiac!

What Is an Aquarius Man Attracted To?

Your Aquarius man needs intellectual stimulation. They need that mental chemistry that makes them feel understood by their partner. These guys are like no other so it will take a true open-minded person to vibrate at their frequency.

They appreciate beautiful women but they manage to find beauty outside standards. If you can entertain his innovative ideas and keep up with his profound conversations, he’ll see you as the most beautiful woman in the world!

This guy is also all about freedom and he needs someone who gives them space. They don’t necessarily have a commitment issue but it takes them a while to fully commit and even if they do, their idea of it is different. Their commitment is based on trust, mutual understanding, and communication.

Aquarius men are attracted to authentic spirits that are not afraid to manifest in the world. They need to feel like they are learning from you and you contribute to their personal development. Otherwise, they will get bored and look for more engaging interactions.

Aquarius Man Personality Traits

• Intelligent. These guys are witty and smart but they are also very analytical. They understand new concepts fast and you won’t have to tell them the same thing twice. Aquarius men know how to extract the essence out of everything and use information to better their mindset and life.  
• Visionary. There’s nothing like the ideas of an Aquarius. To say they think outside the box is an understatement. These guys will give you solutions and perspectives you never considered because they can also be masters of overthinking.  
• Detached. Aquarius men have a supernatural power to duplicate emotionally. I’ll explain. They can be fully connected to one person or event while another part of them remains fully detached. When the connection is too heavy for them to manage, they access their aloof side and act as if they never met you. This is more of a defense mechanism that helps them protect their emotional side.
• Humanitarian. Aquarius is a sign that cares a lot for people and gets involved in a lot of social activities. They access the collective knowledge with ease and spend a lot of their time being involved in their community.
• Unconventional. An Aquarius man will always walk out of the line. They think and feel different than others and find unique ways to express their emotions. These guys are going to surprise you one way or another!

The Weaknesses of Aquarius Man

Like all zodiac signs, Aquarius men have their weaknesses but these are also part of their charm as long as you understand them. The first thing that you’ll notice as you get to know your Aquarius better is their ability to detach emotionally from virtually any type of situation. While this protects them from getting hurt or impacted by an emotional event, it also blocks them from experiencing profound feelings.

Aquarius men can often choose to deal with life in what seems to be a superficial manner. They might be afraid to go in-depth and understand things that matter but they won’t mind using complex words and explanations for things that otherwise seem basic. Also, an Aquarius guy will be able to go in-depth as long as the situation doesn’t involve them. They can analyze other relationships, and understand profound political and social aspects but run away from self-awareness explorations or analyzing their own life.

It is also very challenging to change an Aquarius. They seem to be stuck in the way they are used to doing things even if that way is detrimental to their life purpose. They are used to their routine or should I say lack of, might seem to lack responsibility and freedom often means chaos to a water bearer.  

How Do You Tell an Aquarius Man Likes You?

Being able to tell if an Aquarius man likes you can be tricky because they are nothing like an open book. They know how to send mixed signals and might even try to detach from their feelings before you can pick up on them. However, here are a few clues that will help you identify what an Aquarius feels about you!

He Likes Talking to You

Aquarius guys thrive in complex conversations that touch on the most fascinating topics. If he likes to discuss with you about such subjects and seems interested in what you have to say, this is a good sign that he likes your company and will want more of it. Nothing turns an Aquarius off more than a lack of topics to talk about. They need to feel that you are on the same page with them in terms of curiosity and common interests.

He Invites You To Join Him in His Spontaneous Adventures

These guys can be quite spontaneous. They make up their mind fast and act even faster. So, if he calls you out of the blue to ask you out or if he gets one of his spontaneous “let’s do this” ideas in your presence, this is also a good sign that he is interested in you. These guys need to see you as a friend before they see you in any romantic manner.

He Shows You He Has Feelings

Showing his emotional side is a big deal to an Aquarius man. They might seem emotionless most of the time until they shock you with a romantic poem or gesture. Or maybe they share with you an important event from their past and shed a tear as they are telling the story. Everything that is loaded with emotions can hint that they trust you more than others and they want to get closer to you.

He Introduces You to His Friends and Family

Aquarius men don’t introduce everyone to their inner circle. They have to be emotionally involved in a relationship and see a future with their partner before bringing them home. So, if he wants to show you off, that is a good sign he’s also involved in your relationship and ready to make it a bit more serious. I said a bit, so, don’t go running to get your bride dress just yet!

How to Attract an Aquarius Man?

If you want to attract an Aquarius man there are a few things to keep in mind. Of course, there’s no set-in-stone recipe as every water bearer is different but since none of them comes with instructions, here are the general rules!

Be Authentic and Genuine

You might be tempted to show your nice, pretty, intelligent side to your Aquarius man and while that makes sense, know that they are interested in all your sides. These guys don’t believe in perfection, at least not in the trivial meaning of the word. But they do believe in originality and want to see you through no filters, (not even those you love to use on social media). so be as genuine with him and he will for sure appreciate it.

Show Your Empathetic Side

As I said, these guys are humanitarians and tend to care more for humanity as a whole than individuals. Show him your empathetic spirit and how much you care for others too. This will help you connect with him at a profound level and start interesting conversations. If you find a cause to support that is even better and most likely he will join you in your efforts which will bring both of you on the same team.

Challenge His Mind

Every time you talk to an Aquarius man, you want to speak your mind in the best way possible. Say things that will get him to think of new possibilities and see things from a different perspective. This type of intellectual novelty is exactly what he is looking for and the mental chemistry between the two of you can go a long way. Don’t be afraid to shock him with your original ideas as there are few things that an Aquarius couldn’t wrap his mind around! They will not judge you and they will try their best to join your mindset and multiply your ideas.

Aquarius Man Compatibility

Aries Woman and Aquarius Man

This pair can be one of the most intense couples in the zodiac. The Aries woman brings a lot of passion, fire, and adventure to the table and the Aquarius man is more than happy to enjoy all that. They can make a great team and support each other in meaningful ways too. The problems appear when the Aquarius man might be too detached and even distant, which is something that an Aries woman will take very personally.

Taurus Woman and Aquarius Man

Taurus women are very strong-headed and set in their ways, which might clash with the stubbornness of an Aquarius man. This is the main reason why I don’t think this relationship should rely much on compatibility as it takes more effort to make it work. But if there’s a lot of love involved, I’d still think these two could make it work.

Gemini Woman and Aquarius Man

Both are air signs, making communication and intellectual connection the core of this relationship. They thrive on spontaneity and shared ideas but they can also connect at an emotional level. A Gemini woman will understand the need for space and freedom of an Aquarius man and respect that more than any other zodiac sign.

Cancer Woman and Aquarius Man

This can be a challenging match as Cancer’s emotional depth may not be fully understood by Aquarius’ logical mind. They might share a lot of physical passion in the first stage of their relationship but things can get complicated when they try to build a life together. The Aquarius man needs change and adventure while the Cancer woman is very stable and requires a lot of emotional security.

Leo Woman and Aquarius Man

Both strong-willed and charismatic, this pairing can either create fireworks or power struggles. However, they share a love for uniqueness and creativity which bonds them in their journey through life. The Aquarius man might develop a certain fascination for his Leo lady while she can look up to him for his unique ways of approaching life. They need to be shared life goals though, to build a relationship that will withstand the test of time because none of them is going to give up their desires for the sake of the relationship.

Virgo Woman and Aquarius Man

Virgo’s practicality contrasts with Aquarius’ idealism, but their shared intelligence can lead to deep mutual respect. However, I see these two more like great friends than lovers because none of them brings any romanticism to the relationship. The Aquarius man will have to arrange his life a bit to accommodate the practical and detail-oriented nature of a Virgo partner.

Libra Woman and Aquarius Man

As fellow air signs, the Libra woman and Aquarius man share a natural understanding and mutual appreciation for intellect, creativity, and social justice. Their shared love for social interaction and creative endeavors allows them to complement one another effortlessly. The Libra woman’s charm and diplomacy blend well with the Aquarius man’s visionary outlook, creating a harmonious and balanced partnership.

Scorpio Woman and Aquarius Man

The relationship between a Scorpio woman and an Aquarius man can be challenging due to their distinct emotional needs. Scorpio is intense, passionate, and craves deep emotional intimacy, while Aquarius is more detached, preferring intellectual connection over emotional closeness. The Scorpio woman may find the Aquarius man’s aloofness frustrating, while he might feel overwhelmed by her intensity.

Sagittarius Woman and Aquarius Man

This match is one of adventure and excitement. Both the Sagittarius woman and the Aquarius man are independent, freedom-loving, and always eager to explore new experiences. Their shared passion for adventure, travel, and discovering new ideas makes this relationship dynamic and stimulating. Neither partner feels the need to cling or control, allowing each to pursue their interests while maintaining a strong bond.

Capricorn Woman and Aquarius Man

The Capricorn woman and Aquarius man are an intriguing match, blending practicality with visionary thinking. The Capricorn woman is grounded, and disciplined, and values structure and security in her life. On the other hand, the Aquarius man is unconventional, free-spirited, and driven by creativity and a desire for independence.

Aquarius Woman and Aquarius Man

When two Aquarians come together, the result is a highly intellectual and unconventional relationship. Both partners understand each other’s need for independence and share a deep appreciation for innovation, creativity, and progressive ideas. Their relationship is likely to be non-traditional, filled with unique adventures and intellectual pursuits. However, their mutual detachment from emotional displays may cause a lack of intimacy.

Pisces Woman and Aquarius Man

The relationship between a Pisces woman and an Aquarius man can be both intriguing and complex. Pisces is emotional, intuitive, and seeks deep emotional connections, while Aquarius is more rational and detached. This difference can lead to misunderstandings, with Pisces feeling emotionally unfulfilled and Aquarius feeling stifled by emotional demands.

Final Thoughts

There you have it, my dear, Aquarius man love, traits, and more! But if you need a personalized synastry interpretation or any astrological reading, don’t hesitate to get in touch! Being with an Aquarius man is not for the weak but it sure is one of the most rewarding relationships you will ever have!